Why Are We So Afraid?

Why Are We So Afraid?

… Wonder and fear begin with the same question… “What if?” Wonder comes when our what-if’s consider the possibilities. What if there is something great at the end of this highway? What if that roller coaster is really fun? What if I really like this new food? What if I am actually good at this new thing I’m going to try? We could also phrase these questions as statements of wonder. “What if this turns out great?” is like saying, “I wonder what goodness and beauty is out there for me to discover?” This is the spirit of adventure and exploration and drive that motivates a child to crawl or take their first steps, and it is the spirit that brings out the best in us throughout our lives.

Fear is also a game of “what-if?” What if something bad happens? What if something goes wrong? What if I’m not enough? Instead of wondering at the possibility of something good, we immediately turn to the possibilities of something bad. In the garden, Adam and Eve’s fear began when then asked, “What if God is holding something back from us?” or “What if God is not telling us the whole truth?” or “What if God is a liar?” Of course we don’t see such fears stated so explicitly, but these are the kind of questions that lead them to entertain the possibilities suggested by the serpent…

Blessings in the Wilderness - Week 1: Hope

Blessings in the Wilderness - Week 1: Hope

We don't typically seek out the wilderness moments or seasons in our lives, but the hard truth is that the wilderness will always find us. What we may not realize is that this is not necessarily a bad thing. The path to God almost always leads us through the wilderness and God is with us on the journey.

As we enter into this Lenten season, I invite you to join me as we look for the many blessings springing up in the desert and bringing us new life even in the wilderness…

Cultivating Your Sacred Rhythm

Cultivating Your Sacred Rhythm

Earlier in the fall, my family and I took a few days to get away at the beach. We love going in the fall because the room rates are affordable enough for us to get a balcony overlooking the ocean, which in my opinion is one of the only thing that makes a beach trip worthwhile. I’m not much for the sand, but I love the ocean view, especially at sunrise (or sunset if you are on the west coast). It wasn’t really a vacation as much as it was a small break to get out of the house. Our daughter continued to do school remotely and my wife and I worked, and we took the evenings and the weekend off to relax.

Working from the balcony throughout the day, you begin to notice certain rhythms on the beach below…

Too Many Voices

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Too Many Voices
Sacred Rhythms - Part 6
Sunday, February 7, 2021
John 10:1-21, James 3:13-18, Matthew 13:35; 24:4-14, 1 Corinthians 1:18-31; 3:18-20

When he has brought out all his own, he goes ahead of them, and the sheep follow him because they know his voice. They will not follow a stranger, but they will run from him because they do not know the voice of strangers…

I have other sheep that do not belong to this fold. I must bring them also, and they will listen to my voice. So there will be one flock, one shepherd.

John 10:4-5, 16

I recently came across a meme on Facebook citing Ecclesiastes 10:2 as a justification for conservative political agendas as the only Christian choice. The verse reads:

The heart of the wise inclines to the right,
but the heart of a fool to the left.

Ecclesiastes 10:2

Those who shared it claim that this is the reason conservatives are labeled “right wing”, presumably putting them on the right side of God’s will, while the left wing liberals represent the fools scripture warns us not to follow.

Let me first say that I do not believe this for a second, as I know countless Christians on the political left whose faith legitimately shapes their politics at least as much as those on the right. Many on the right of the spectrum have viewed me as one of those radical, foolish liberals, though I tend to think of myself as being more moderate. More than the pettiness of this argument, my larger concern is the blatant misuse and abuse of God’s word to fit our worldly agendas, even if it is only meant in jest.

Of course if we continue down this line of thinking, we could easily present scripture to the contrary, such as Deuteronomy 28:14 which promises God’s blessings if you “do not turn aside from any of the words that I am commanding you today, either to the right or to the left, following other gods to serve them.” If we wanted to tie this verse into American politics, we could make a pretty good argument that the ideologies of both the left and the right represent other gods while the Kingdom of God stands above them both. Proverbs 4:27 and Joshua 1:7 make similar arguments. If anything, this would make a far more compelling case for what it means to obey God’s will rather than falling in with the various political philosophies and ideologies of our world.

Even more absurd, I once heard an argument that because Jesus sits on the right hand of the father, we must place our allegiance on the right side of government, meaning the republican party. A simple and equally absurd response is to say that if Jesus sits on the Father’s right, then the Father sits at Jesus’s left hand so should we follow the Father or the Son when it comes to placing our allegiance with the right or the left? Clearly God is not divided in this way, but again, it demonstrates the foolishness of starting with our agendas when trying to discern God’s will.

No matter how reasonable or ridiculous the arguments may sound, I come back to my primary concern about the way we so easily manipulate God’s word to fit our agendas. One thing I can say with absolute certainty is that none of the Biblical writers had the two-party American system of democratic government in mind when they wrote about the left or the right.

To follow Jesus will inevitably require us to walk away from long-held political loyalties to reorder our lives around a new constellation of values shaped by Jesus’ teaching, his example, his death and resurrection, and his lordship over all things.

Michael F. Bird, Washington Post, 2019.

Politics presents an easy case study for the ways we try to manipulate God’s will to align with our own agendas, but if we are honest we do this in many areas of life. As Christians, we are always seeking to discern God’s will, and this is a good thing.

Our tendency toward quick one-sided conclusions raises another possibility. What if we are not actually seeking to discern God’s will at all? What if we are really only trying to claim God’s will as a means of justifying our pre-existing opinions or beliefs so that we can live our lives as we choose? Do we honestly pray, “Thy will be done,” or do we cough under our breath as our hearts scream, “MY will be done”?

Discerning God’s will is not about finding scriptures to defend our positions. That is easy. We can find a scripture, and likely several, to defend any position we want. Genuine discernment, however, flows out of our ability to hear and recognize God’s voice in the midst of so many strangers disguised as the shepherd. It is far easier to be led astray than we would like to admit, and there are likely some areas of life where all of us have wandered down the wrong path.

Discernment must begin with confession. It begins by admitting that we might be wrong.

Then, and only then, can we begin the grueling process of tuning out all the other voices so that we can hear our shepherd calling. His voice is soft, but it is distinct, for our shepherd’s voice is the voice of unconditional love.

As you are discerning God’s will for whatever situations you may be facing, the first question must not be “How does God’s word fit into my pre-existing framework or affirm what I already think is right?” The first question must always be, “What does love require of me in this moment?” Or as John Wesley put it, what would it look like in this situation to do ALL the good I can and to do NO HARM. Whatever God’s will may or may not be, it will always be grounded in goodness and love. I can’t think of a better place to start.

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No More Hiding

No More Hiding

Have you ever listened to a sermon or read a passage of scripture and immediately thought of someone else who needs to hear this? Sometimes that’s a good thing. It may be just the right word of encouragement someone needs in the moment. Other times it may be more critical as the scripture points out a particular flaw we tend to see in others but rarely in ourselves.

Have you ever noticed how everybody else sins differently than you? As a pastor of a recovery ministry once said, “we all have our favorite flavor of sin.” One person may prefer sweet chocolate covered gossip while another leans toward the saltiness of unforgiveness or holding grudges. Some sin boldly knowing God will forgive them while others pretend they barely sin at all, especially when compared to others who do far worse. Yet we rarely criticize or judge someone else who shares our favorite flavor…

Flesh & Blood Spirituality

Flesh & Blood Spirituality

…Why do we see an angel of the Lord waking Elijah twice from his rest? Why not simply move from the victory on Mt. Carmel to his encounter with God on Mt. Hermon?

The answer comes in verse 7. The second time Elijah is awoken, the angel says, “Eat something, because you have a difficult road ahead of you.”…

…But God doesn’t do anything miraculous to fix Elijah’s problems in that moment. Instead, the angel simply awakens him twice to eat and regain his strength, and then allows him to rest again before beginning his journey. Eat and sleep. Sounds like the miracle cure our grandmother’s prescribed for every cold, flu, or other sickness we had as children. Eat and sleep. It’s so ordinary. How could this be all God offers Elijah in this, the lowest moment of his life?…

Too Deep for Words

Too Deep for Words

…There is something extremely disorienting and even frightening about silence. Even when we say we want peace and quiet, we don’t really know how to process true silence. Given the ongoing chatter in our heads, most of us have never actually experienced true silence.

That’s where prayer comes in. The most common definition of prayer is “talking to God.” That may be true, but simply talking to God does not make for a very good relationship. Relationships require far more listening than talking, and yet it seems in our spiritual lives, we expect God to do all the listening. God listens to our thanks and praise, but God also listens to our endless complaints and demands and excuses. It is true that God is the best listener we will ever know. But if we really want a relationship with God, we’ve got to learn to listen too.

That’s why silence is so important…

The Living Word

The Living Word

American folk writer Samuel Clemens, better known as Mark Twain, once said,

It ain't those parts of the Bible that I can't understand that bother me, it is the parts that I do understand.

He’s got a point. As Christians, we are well practiced at debating the most minute verses of scripture while completely missing the point of the whole story. We are quick to quote chapters and verses out of context to reinforce our argument or position on any number of issues which the Biblical writers knew or cared nothing about, while at the same time not even being aware of the surrounding context of that verse. We are quick to judge others for breaking some Old Testament law while we ourselves still can’t seem to figure out how to love our neighbors as ourselves or to forgive as God has forgiven us…

Longing for More

Longing for More

“What do you want me to do for you?” Jesus asks the blind man. Bartimaeus didn’t ask for money or food or any other basic necessity as he had every day on the streets. Instead, Bartimaeus asked for the impossible. He asked for the deepest longing of his heart, not just to get by for another day, but to see clearly for the rest of his life.

Jesus blessed this man’s faith and restored his sight. Today as we begin this new year, Jesus is asking us the same question… “What do you want me to do for you?”…

Forever!

Forever!

…If anyone had reason to feel weary, it was Simeon and Anna. After a lifetime of devotion to God it would be easy to retire and pass the torch to the next generation. Yet they remained faithful to the end and in their final days sang out the hymns of joy and praise that the world might see the light that had entered their darkness.

Christmas is not about a temporary season of hope and joy amid despair. Though the strings of lights may come down in a few weeks, we do not have to return to darkness. When we sing “the weary world rejoices”, is not only on that single Holy Night.

Weariness is temporary. Rejoicing is forever!