God Feels Our Pain
Where is God when… ? - Part 1
Sunday, November 5, 2023
Luke 10:25-37; 2 Corinthians 1:3-4
A Samaritan, who was on a journey, came to where the man was. But when he saw him, he was moved with compassion. The Samaritan went to him and bandaged his wounds.
Luke 10:33-34 (CEB)
May the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ be blessed! He is the compassionate Father and God of all comfort. He’s the one who comforts us in all our trouble so that we can comfort other people who are in every kind of trouble. We offer the same comfort that we ourselves received from God.
2 Corinthians 1:3-4 (CEB)
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All Saints Day often brings up a mixture of emotions, from joyful memories to tremendous grief in the absence of those who have gone before us. The stark reminder of death is difficult to process and often avoided in a world so overwhelmed by human suffering.
So where is God in the midst of all this death and suffering? Over the coming weeks we will wrestle with why God cannot simply put an end to pain or death or even evil. For now we must begin with a key aspect of God’s character, that no matter what it may seem, God is a God of compassion.
Compassion is not simply feeling sorry for someone in their grief, but actually empathizing with them in suffering.
Psychologist Brene Brown says empathy involves “listening, holding space, withholding judgment, emotionally connecting, and communicating the incredibly healing message, ‘You’re not alone.’” Empathizers are fellow sufferers who understand. I distinguish empathy from pity. To pity is to feel sorry for others at a distance. The one who pities remains detached and says, “That’s just too bad for her.” “Ain’t that a shame?” “Bless your heart.” Or “Sucks to be him!”
Tom Oord, God Can’t, 49.
When the Samaritan in Jesus’ parable sees the dying man on the road, he was “moved with compassion.” It is hard to be moved with compassion from afar. As we draw near to the suffering, our capacity for compassion and empathy increases.
This is equally true of God. In 2 Corinthians 1, Paul describes God as a God of compassion and the source of all comfort. Unlike humans, God does not suffer from compassion fatigue, but always draws near to the hurting and brokenhearted. God doesn’t merely see our suffering from a distance, but God feels our pain and can handle it. God’s empathy and compassion always moves God toward expressing love in a variety of ways.
John Wesley calls our mysterious perceptions of God’s presence “spiritual sensations” because the Spirit communicates with us beyond our five senses. Jesus sends the Spirit as the Comforter. The Spirit often uses human comforters as conduits of God’s presence to those in pain. God demonstrates compassion through communities of compassionate people.
Sometimes we feel God’s love and compassion more than others, but even when we can’t, God always feels our pain and is moved to extend love and mercy toward all who are hurting. If the cross shows us anything, it is that God is a God who understands… a God who always with us in our suffering and who deeply feels our pain.